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Self-Love

Dr. Stephen Phinney

And He said to him,” ‘YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.’ “This is the great and foremost commandment. “The second is like it, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.’ (Mat 22:37-39)


Does the Bible contradict itself?


“He who loves his life loses it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it to life eternal.” (John 12:25)

So which is it? Since the two greatest commandments are to love the Lord your God with all your heart and love your neighbor as yourself, we seem to have a paradox on our hands.


The irony here is an assumption. We assume what Jesus is saying is the love you are to have for your neighbor is a by-product of self-love. Truth being said, despite the common teaching from pulpits today, they tout the first person you should love is yourself, which is a misinterpretation OF Matthew 22. Nowhere in scripture are we encouraged to self-love. In fact, as our second passage reveals, he who loves his life will lose it. Now the difficult part to accept is he who hates his life will keep it to life eternal. Out of all the years I have been in ministry, I have not heard one message preached on hating yourself. It is almost as if talking about hating yourself is taboo in our church today, while self-love is dominating the ideologies & twisted truths taught to people who “do bad things” is because they hate themselves. What a lie this is! People do “bad things” because they are consumed with themselves.


People who love themselves look out for number one.


The irony is people who are suicidal - think they hate themselves when in reality, they are indulgent IN self-love. It is a practical application to what Jesus said; he who loves his life loses it. Suicide is a love affair with self, and they are obsessed over self-love. When others don’t join them in this pity party, they commonly throw a temper tantrum – they “pull the trigger.” I am well aware after 40+ years in ministry that this truth will do a “fly-by” in most minds. It is my hope you will carefully consider this Truth.


Most freak out when others talk about suicide, and I don’t! So what do most people-helpers do? They attempt to convince the person it is good to love yourself. However, I use the passage John 12:25 to reveal and introduce them to eternal Life. I show them that the Lord is working relentlessly for them to accept they INDEED need to die; furthermore, I show them that this death should not be enacted through suicide. After that, I reveal how to go from the depressing life of the Adamic nature to being transferred into the new nature & Life in Christ. The results? I maintain a zero percentage of clients committing suicide.



Self-love always ends in death - in one madness method or another.


Self-love is the reason for “movements” within our culture – the MeMe Gospel, Social Gospel, Christianized Social Justice, Critical Race Theory, and many others. All tout loving yourself as their primary foundational ideology. God acknowledges this fleshly ideological misnomer called self-love, but He certainly does not teach it as an answer connected to His redemption. While it is an existing reality for all of humanity born into the Adamic nature, He understands this fleshly obsession is needed to l